In my online book club, this week's habit from The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Families, is "Start with the End in Mind." (Visit Simple Mom for more info or to join.)
What does that mean? In two words - family mission. I liked the idea, at least until I tried to start a discussion at dinner Tuesday night and was met by less than enthusiastic responses around the table. Except Youngest, who did run around the room enthusiastically, yelling, "Famwy mithon!"
It was a discouraging exchange with all of them, frankly. Maybe because I just did a successful and fulfilling mission and strategic plan for another organization and expected everyone to jump with joy at the idea. I left dinner bereft, thinking maybe we don't really need one after all.
I finished this week's chapter last night and read the following quote:
With proper involvement in the process of creating a mission statement, you'll find that it will overcome the fear of parenting, of being decisive. . . . You won't get into the state of collusion that many parents do wherein they feel validated by the weaknesses of their children and look about for friendly, sympathetic allies who will agree with them and massage their hearts and make them feel that they're okay and it's their "bratty kids" who aren't. Page 95, 7 Habits.
That's a pretty compelling reason for me. And Husband, after I read it to him. So we're back. Let the mission planning begin.
What about you? Do you have one? Have you ever thought about it?